The moments can sneak up on you, those times when you lose all patience. You want to give up, throw things, or even scream. Maybe it’s your mother or father, a grandparent, or maybe even a spouse. They’ve been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, have Alzheimer’s home care, and have been dealing with the symptoms for many years.
In the beginning, it might have been mildly annoying to constantly remind them where they put things, what they were doing, or about appointments they had coming up. Doing this repeatedly for many months or, especially, years, has been completely taxing.
You are worn out, tired, and frustrated. There are moments when you feel like giving up, yelling at them, or even shaking them to try and get them to remember something simple. Even with Alzheimer’s home care, you feel you have to constantly repeat yourself, and that is getting old (in reality, it was old years ago).
If you are feeling this way, there are things you can do that might help, including Alzheimer’s home care. Everyone is different, so don’t take these few tips as gospel. Some may be highly effective for you. Others might seem like common sense, things you’ve tried repeatedly through the years already. Whatever the case, focus on the fourth point in this list because that could be the perfect recipe for helping both you and that senior with Alzheimer’s.
Here are four tips to help you deal with your loved one suffering from Alzheimer’s, including getting Alzheimer’s home care:
First, take a deep breath.
Isn’t this something we all should be doing more of? Taking a deep breath in a moment of frustration might just give you time to settle your thoughts. It can push away frustration and even anger, even if it’s only for a few seconds.
When you feel like you want to scream or give up, just take a deep breath. In fact, it might be better to count to three while you do this. Take three deep breaths — inhaling through your nose and slowly exhaling out of your mouth — and then reset. That brief amount of time could be enough to help you calm yourself.
Second, answer in a different tone.
When we get frustrated, our tone changes. We get short. We huff. We groan. We may even growl. Once you take a deep breath or a few seconds before you respond, think about your tone.
Your tone may not appear to be a big deal, but how you say things can impact how they are received. Or interpreted. So try answering in a different tone, one that is considered calmer, softer. It may have the impact you’ve been looking for.
Third, take a moment and step away when you need to.
That’s not always easy when supporting somebody with Alzheimer’s, but it’s essential. What happens when you don’t? You probably already know the answer and have regrets because of that. That quick moment could help you reset.
Finally, turn to extra help.
Elder care comes in many forms; most notably, in-home care is the best. An experienced Alzheimer’s home care aide who has been working with other seniors dealing with Alzheimer’s can help you take the time you need, which will help you relax and answer in a different tone and may even offer other strategies that will help when you’re constantly repeating yourself to somebody with Alzheimer’s.
If you or an aging loved one are considering Alzheimer’s Home Care in St. Louis, MO, please contact the caring staff at Pear Tree Home Care today! (314) 942-9411
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At Pear Tree we’re innovators. Our goal, to create a family of caregivers looking to provide a one of a kind experience to our clientele.
In 2016, our founders noticed a key problem in home care industry that everyone seemed to be ignoring.
It’s too systematic. Home care isn’t one size fits all. Just like people aren’t one size fits all.
That’s where Pear Tree comes in.
We yearn for you to have the best possible care for your loved ones and the peace of mind that comes with knowing they aren’t only in good hands. They’re in great hands. Because, in the end, that’s what we’d want for our family.
It’s proven. When the home care experience is immersive and personalized, you’re going to produce better success rates with healthier family members.
Please, join us in our journey of revolutionizing the home care industry and creating lasting relationships along the way.
This is not the first Home Care agency for Pat, she was the Director of nursing for Kimberly Nurses in 1980 and after the tragic passing of the companies president she opened and co-founded American Nursing Resources Home Health Agency. Pat opened and passed Medicare certification for ANRHHA Clayton and Washington, MO offices.
For Zachary, the name “Pear Tree” is a tribute to his beloved late friend; Wade Abbadessa. Wade worked at his family’s famous restaurant “The Pear Tree” in Macon, until his tragic death in September 2014. Wade lost his battle with a rare form of bone cancer at the young age of 26. His legacy will live on through our company.
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